A Night to Connect

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This sweet girl and I have been at odds lately and just haven’t connected. We’ve had fun together, but then are quickly at odds. She wants independence but is still a little girl. That tug of war inside of her leads her to lash out and often I am the target. In a way it is flattering that she feels safe to yell and be her worst with me, but it is also hurtful and leaves me angry.


 
I helped her make bath bombs, we laughed, we talked, and she shared things. I left her room after tucking her in feeling light and happy, the way you do after time with a good friend. I pray that one day she will look forward to spending time with me as her friend.



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