She's Teaching Me
I always think of parents teaching their children, but am sometimes reminded that they are also teaching us. This morning, my independent girl had it in her mind to wear a t-shirt to school. We go through this debate many days about what she wants to wear and what I think is a good choice. Today my argument against a t-shirt was that it was in the 40s with a high of about 60 and therefore, in my opinion, too cool for a t-shirt alone. She persisted and I repeated that she needed a warmer shirt and finally, as she often does, she asked, "why?" I started to respond by saying, "because your teachers will think I'm nuts for sending you to school in a short sleeved shirt on a cold day." That's when it dawned on me that I was more worried about someone else's opinion than I was about my sweet girl. In that moment I changed course and told her to wear the ballerina t-shirt and feel good about herself. Boy did she prance into school feeling good about he...